Stroll along any social media thread and you are sure to see something about a “side chic”. One woman claiming that another woman is HER mans “side piece”. It is the by far the most ridiculous thought any woman could have and the stupidest thing a lady could ever say.
I did not see much social media on valentines day because I was loving the day but when I did sign on what I saw was absolutely ridiculousness!
The dictionary of Dana declares that a side chic is:
any woman a man ain’t loyal and faithful too. If there is more than one woman in the equation that means both, all; are on a side of him, hence all are side chics.
This is a “GET WOKE” call to all the women holding on to a piece of a man and declaring ‘I got a man”. If he cheats on you, lies to your face, leaves you continually and finds solace in someone’s else’s arms, brings home babies and disease, and embarrasses you constantly, baby girl, you too are a side chic. If you ain’t his First Lady and Only lady, you are a side chic.
If you have to beg him for what he gives other women willingly, you are a convenience piece. If you have ever in your life said “I want what she has or what you gave her”, you have lost yourself in that woman’s identity and his desire for her…
Some women are only able to cling to the man they have because she has no respect in his eyes and no self respect in her own but always declaring at least “I GOT A MAN”.
New definition of a man, I see.
These “I got a man” women, are the most desperate of the bunch. Just check her mans history and you will see the unthinkable. The unfathomable. The embarrassing and the unacceptable. Check her history and you will find that she was the “side chic” according to her definition at some point in her life and now she is just as delusional as can be.
Going through cell phones, checking emails, rambling through pockets, stalking social media activity and trying to steal identities. Trying to make herself something she can never be…someone her man really wants by desire and not by default.
A man once told me that a man will never risk the loss of something he values. Not ever. And a lifestyle of decisions reflect character…not mistakes.
Wanting something and valuing something are two completely different things.
So this one is for all the women who are running around claiming she got a man that ain’t faithful and loyal. You got something but please stop calling that piece of DNA a man but if you like it, we love it.
To all the women who have enough self love to not accept the unacceptable, hold your head up high girl and pray for our “I got a man” sisters. Lord knows they need it.
-Ouch Auspicious Living Magazine